Single Lifestyle Motto

Okay so now that I've kind of alluded to this multiple times in two days I'm going to go into this and explain it and how I came up with it and how it works.

The Motto is "Do Nothing" 

Seems simple right? If you think yes you're wrong. Doing nothing is actually very hard and requires constant thought and restraint. The 'Do Nothing' concept came up where all good ideas come from, Waffle House around 3 am. My best friend had been married and had gotten a divorce and was being pursued by multiple girls and He was working on his relationship with God and really didn't need the distractions involved with a girl, so he asked me what he should 'do'. I thought about it for a few minutes as some songs passed on the jukebox and finally I said 'I've got it' he asked what and I told him "Do Nothing" then he went on to ask me what I meant by that and I said "do nothing. absolutely nothing. don't act on anything. just let things go how they are going to go naturally and don't do anything." It took a while but eventually it started working.  He is now in a relationship with a great girl. 

Okay so how it works there are a few guidelines to the "Do Nothing" method. 

Guideline 1: Must Be A Relationship

This is simple, it has to be a relationship for you to 'Do Nothing' with.

Guideline 2: Must Be Fully Committed

You can't be wishy washy with this method or it won't work. You can't be pushing the relationship and drop off the next day. That's playing with emotions and that ain't cool.

Guideline 3: Keep Focused On God

The whole point of the 'Do Nothing' method is to work on your relationship with God and let everything else fall into place "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you." ~Matthew 6.33 

Guideline 4: Cut Off Point

There is a point in time where the 'Do Nothing' method will stop working. At that point a decision will have to be made but if you have done everything right it won't be much of a decision to make, you will know for sure one way or the other what to do. So doing nothing will, in the end, help you decide what to do. 

This is the 'Do Nothing' method. So far it is flawless because it keeps you out of it and puts everything in God's hands like it is supposed to be anyway. He is the one in control and we should want His will over our will anyway. I am not going to lie and say that the 'Do Nothing' method is easy because it isn't. It is anything but easy. It is one of the hardest things I've come up with, but it works. Let me know if you plan on trying the  'Do Nothing' Method and tweet me @t_to_tha_j #DoNothing